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Dear SweetGirl909 (AKA Chris the Ex),
Firstly, I know it's you. I've known it's you since the first time you posted under that pseudonym, but I've said nothing until now. You know it's you, and I know it's you. So, why hide behind a fake persona? Is it so you won't get criticized for your biased views on me?
Secondly, why are you still trying to infiltrate my life? Last I remember, you wanted me to "get an STD and die" or something like that. I'm happy being out of your life. Why can't you be content staying out of mine? Just so you know, hiding in closets as well as stalking are never in fashion.
Third, you need to move on, for your own sake. It's been ten months since we've broken up. Go out, date, and forget about me. As much as I know you like to try to humiliate me on my blog, the best revenge would be to be happy and chalk up what happened between us as a bad idea. The longer you keep drawing out your pain, the longer it will be before you are truly happy.
Good Luck,
Quyen
Firstly, I know it's you. I've known it's you since the first time you posted under that pseudonym, but I've said nothing until now. You know it's you, and I know it's you. So, why hide behind a fake persona? Is it so you won't get criticized for your biased views on me?
Secondly, why are you still trying to infiltrate my life? Last I remember, you wanted me to "get an STD and die" or something like that. I'm happy being out of your life. Why can't you be content staying out of mine? Just so you know, hiding in closets as well as stalking are never in fashion.
Third, you need to move on, for your own sake. It's been ten months since we've broken up. Go out, date, and forget about me. As much as I know you like to try to humiliate me on my blog, the best revenge would be to be happy and chalk up what happened between us as a bad idea. The longer you keep drawing out your pain, the longer it will be before you are truly happy.
Good Luck,
Quyen
posted by Quyen @ 12:12 PM
8 Comments:
At 1:11 PM ,
The Mighty Anonymous said...
Chris as SG909, eh? Let's find out...
I have analysed Chris' previous posts and we will do a side-by-side comparison.
I make learning fun!
Ready...Let's Begin.
1. Verbose -- Check
2. Q does unhealthy things themed solilloquy -- Check, Check, Check...
3. Reiterating/Misinterpreting carefully chosen words of the Mighty One -- Check
4. Oh this?? Yeah but you did THIS! diatribe -- Check
Well, I'm convinced. Though, he does have a point with the mexican comment. It was a bit racist. As I am half-mexican/half-white, I can tell you honestly that at least half of me laughed.
The problem is that Q is a can kicking Vietnameanie!! Maybe you should stop with the can kicking Q, your emotional abuse of us cans is unbearable (by can I mean Mexi-can, Afri-can......um...can-adian).
At 2:44 PM ,
Chris said...
Thanks for the consideration, but I'm afraid that at least this time, I'll have to disappoint. In between coughing up blood, a sleep disorder, rapid weight loss, and being hospitalized, as well as losing the power and internet access to my apartment, I haven't had the chance to drop by. If you’re still not satisfied, I can fax you the labels to my snazzy new medications.
At least it was nice to know I was missed while at the hospital. I guess I wont have to worry about my funeral's attendance :P
Telling people I told you to go die from an STD was a low blow Q. I guess it would only be proper for me to inform others I said this after you told me you were proud to have cheated on me for a year and a half.
As for moving on, I've done that. However, you’re the one I’m worried about, truly worried about. You don’t want to continue down your self-destructive path. Sooner or later, you’ll be hospitalized just as I was. And sooner or later, if you keep having gratuitous sex with random men, you will get an STD. You need to move on and enter a real relationship, even if you’re afraid you’ll ruin that relationship too with your cheating ways.
You have the potential to be the woman every man wants - don’t throw that away. You have the potential to be the best violist in the country – don’t throw that away. You have the potential to be a great teacher – don’t lose sight of that. You have the potential for emotional fulfillment - don't give up on that. Don’t throw your life away because you’re afraid to make the tough choices. Anything worth having in life is going to be difficult, and present the possibility of failure.
Good Luck. It's time to go after your dreams! (just don't diss me while I'm fighting just to stay alive at a hospital :P)
- Chris
At 6:41 PM ,
Yankeebob said...
Peachy and I were talking today about how strange it is that you get visitors who come by to pick at you Quyen. Your blog seems to attract people who like to find reason to be nasty to you. Weird.
Chris says he isn't SweetGirl909. I could believe it either way. The style is the same along with the content. I just think it's sad that anyone would come to your blog and insult you, no matter who it is.
To disagree and discuss is one thing. To be rude and insulting is another.
As for the statement "You need to move on and enter a real relationship...", isn't "real" relative? And shouldn't Quyen decide when it's time for a relationship that she feels is "real"?
Yes, that decision is hers.
I hope you recover quickly Chris. That illness sounds rough.
At 7:22 AM ,
peachy said...
I think it's very interesting how you (Chris/Sweetgirl909) are dying in the hospital, yet you find your way here on the same day that Quyen calls you out.
You obviously haven't moved on. I do hope you get better, and then move on.
At 8:43 AM ,
JK said...
Wow. Shit is going down before my eyes.
My personal opinion (and everyone has one) is that this isn't really the forum to air this stuff. Somebody has to take the high road. Since this is Q's blog, it's Q's opinions that she gets to air.
Fighting back and forth on her blog isn't the way to get anything worked out (in my opinion). Somebody take the high raod
I agree with Peachy and Bob also.
At 11:38 AM ,
The Mighty Anonymous said...
I'm pretty sure that Q knows my more inflammatory comments are either just pure trashtalking fun.
Ususally she knows this because I go off and find her and tell her to read them.
For those of you who don't know me: If you're taking me overly seriously, you're really just not getting it.
At 12:26 PM ,
Chris said...
With all due respect, I find it interesting how people on this board can't move on. Someone disagrees with Q, and I'm immediately attacked. Has anyone considered that the dissenter could be any one of the boys Q has dated during the past ten months?
To be honest, there are several points on which I disagree with SweetGirl. I might even point out to her that while Q may have made bad choices in the past, her posts show growth and a desire to move in a positive direction. But, rather than slander Sweetgirl, I'll take the high ground as Jermey has suggested.
To Peachy, I have moved on. When I saw the post, I didn't call Q and confront her, I didn't post comments on her myspace or friendster profiles, I didn't instant message her, I didn't send an email. I thought about it, but I didn't. I just blogged about it. Not to sound rude, but Q's out of my life for a reason.
To YankeeBob, thank you very much for your best wishes. I'm doing so badly now that I've been put on Prozac for the depression and anxiety that apparently ensue from being sick all the time. Fortunately, my new gf and friends have been around to support, rather than slander me.
At 1:21 PM ,
Anonymous said...
I think you all just need to grow the fuck up. Candy-assed bitches.
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