A Few Things

First, I wanted to respond to Peachy's question about my compulsive lying. First of all, I try not to lie on my blog. Things I will do are change names to protect people's identities, leave out information, or paint things in more a flattering light. After all, who wants to look like a jerk on their own blog? :P So, rest assured, I divulge a lot about who I am and what I do to all of you. If there's any lying being done, it's usually in the form of not giving all the details. Then again, you really aren't interested in how many eyebrow hairs I plucked today, right? ;)

Second, I want to address the anonymi by not allowing anonymous comments anymore.

Third, I'd like to address a few notable people who have been posting in my comments section lately:

TMAnon - I'm very offended that you'd offer up details of my life to others that may or may not be true. It's disrespectful, and I'd appreciate it if you would stop. Thanks.

Jay (aka EM-50) - It's been 2 years since I've last seen or talked to you. Let it go already. And if you won't let it go, be a man about it and meet me for coffee, face to face, and discuss things like an adult, not a kid throwing rocks, hiding behind a "bush" of anonymity. If you really need resolution, come to the source and get it. Don't go behind my back and "compare notes" with Chris. And if you really think you're justified in "getting revenge" by defacing me on my blog with your random comments, just remember that I was only 18 y/o when I was dealing with your evil ex-wife and taking care of your 3 y/o son. What were you dealing with when you were 18? Dirty laundry? The worst part was that you never protected me from any of it. You only pushed me in further and further, and I did my best to help you. Everyone has a breaking point, and I had to leave. Why don't you respect my decision and let me live my life in peace? You're 36 y/o now. Act like it.

Chris - Thanks for always standing up for me and protecting me. You've been really coming through for the both of us lately. I appreciate the warmth and understanding you've tried to display at this time in your life which I know is excruciating for you to deal with. I only hope that things get better and better for you. I wish you the best that people and life has to offer :)

I think...

I think I'm falling for him... :)

The Longest Date EVER

I just went on the longest first date in the history of mankind. It lasted around 40 hours total with only bathroom breaks inbetween! That's right - forty... AND (you should be proud of me :P) no sex occurred within this time at all ;) So, what do two people do on a first date that lasts for 40 hours but doesn't involve sex? Let me tell you... :)

The date officially started on Saturday at 8PM. When he knocked on the door, I was still naked! :P So, I had to make him wait outside for a minute while I threw my clothes on. When I finally opened the door, I felt a little flustered and nervous because my place was a mess (as it always is) and because I was unprepared for his arrival. But there he was in front of me - all 6'6" of him ;) I gave him a hug for making him stand outside waiting for me and invited him in while I got my purse together. I turned to get my keys on the counter and when I turned around to ask him where he wanted to eat, he had a bouquet of stargazer lillies in his hand and held them out to me :D My heart about melted - I was so flattered. :) Stargazer lillies are my absolute favorite flowers, and I rarely get flowers from boys. Score one point for bringing me flowers on the first date :)

We went to dinner at a Benihana style place where they cook your food in front of you on hibachi tables. He did all of the gentlemanly things: opened my doors for me, pulled out my chair, let me walk in front of him, and even let me show him some Japanese table manners :) I later learned he went to the male equivalent of a finishing school to learn dining, dancing, and business etiquette. Score one point for going to etiquette school (I love a guy with good manners!). Score another point for actually using what he learned. ;)

After that, he took me to the first live band concert I've ever been to in my entire life. It was exciting and fun, and I just felt so comfortable with him already that I didn't mind it when he took my hand. In fact, he took my hand during a ballad. Score one point for perfect timing :)

We got back to my place, and by that time, it was late and I almost didn't want the nite to end. We played Gamecube and drank mudslides for awhile. Then, I got bored and just wanted to talk. We talked until dawn. He told me I'm beautiful. Score one point for being a gamer. Score another for boosting my ego :)

After 3 hours of sleep, we got up and went to a Greek restaurant for lunch. While we were sitting there, I looked up and felt it was such a beautiful day that we should go do something before he went back. We decided on the Getty museum and spontaneously picked up and left. Score one point for being easy-going and spontaneous :)

After we got back from the Getty, we were so tired. So, we decided to take a nap. Once we awoke, we were bored. So, we decided to watch Garden State. It was a great movie and I highly recommend it! :) Eventually, we got hungry. And he was totally down to go out to another restaurant. But I didn't want him to spend anymore money. So, I told him I'd cook dinner for the both of us. As I was getting everything prepared, he told me he wanted to cook alongside me. I blushed. Usually, a guy will just sit on the couch and play video games while I play domestic goddess. But he wanted to really learn how to cook and help me. Again, I was flattered. So, I put him to work on the Bolognese sauce and the Mudslides ;) I think it was the best penne Bolognese I've ever eaten. Score another point for teamwork in the kitchen :) When we were done cooking, we popped in Amelie and relaxed on the couch. We never finished the movie because we got tired. But that nite, I finally decided I wanted to kiss him on the lips. Score a point for not pushing me to be intimate and being patient.

All this brings us to this morning. We ate the leftovers from last nite while watching the ending of Amelie, and then we just laid there and cuddled. He ended up leaving today - Monday at 12 noon.

So, there you have it. That's what a 40 hour date consists of. We joked that we actually went on the equivalent of 3 or 4 dates. :P I really had a great time! And now, for some reason, I don't have the desire to go out and schedule tons of dates with tons of different people. For some reason, I want to see where this goes. Could it be that I'm taken with him?

I got the hookups!

So, I've been networking and I've been meeting a lot of other professionals. It's nice being able to trade random skills like violin lessons for say, bodywork by a certified massage therapist, or tarot card lessons for say, hypnotism :D I feel like Adam, except I'm actually really excited to be hypnotized! I told him I wanted to cure my compulsive lying. So, we'll see how that goes! ;)

I've been thinking of investing in some more kongas for my Donkey Konga games. So, when I have Gamecube parties, we all have a konga instead of just sitting around one konga and assigning each person a role (I was "clap" last time :P) I swear... Gamecube is the BEST system when you're drunk! hahaha :P Everyone has the slowest reaction times! I once played Halo 2 on Xbox while I was drunk, and my friend said, "Wow. This is like watching a retarded person in a battle royale." >:( The Xbox is so confusing! That's why I like the Gamecube. All you have to do is hit one button as fast as you can hehehe :P Plus, all the pretty colors are nice :P

I'm addicted to homemade Mudslides... mmmmmmmmmm... chocolatey, frothy goodness ;) They're like Frosty's from Wendy's... but alcoholic :P

"Miss Quyen"

Classes started this week at the performing arts school I work at, and I'm teaching 8 classes during this 10-week session (2 of them got cancelled for under-enrollment) as well as private lessons. So far, 2 of my classes are completely full (with waiting lists!) :D That means I'll make $42+ per 50 minute class! ;) I love teaching classes because there's a huge opportunity to make more money than I would normally. It's a lot more taxing because you have to raise your voice, make sure everyone is getting the material, have an agenda, and stand and walk the whole time. But you also get to impact many lives at the same time. Plus, they call me "Miss Quyen" and hug me around the hips like I'm an elementary school teacher :P hehehe

In dating news, meeting different people has really opened up my eyes. Usually, I date very cleancut looking guys - tall, slim, conservative, hair parted to the side... you get the picture ;) But I went on this great date with a guy with tattoos all over his body - even his face and neck! I loved it! I never thought I would; I thought I'd be grossed out and turned off, but he was totally normal and fun :D Not to mention hot ;) Meow.

Here's another thing I never thought I'd like - metrosexuality. I think it's totally hot when a guy colors his hair or keeps his nails looking manicured. Even hotter is when a guy will shave his cock or pluck his eyebrows... but the hottest thing is when a guy is comfortable enough with his sexuality to wear eyeliner! I never thought that would be hot until my friend, Matt, sent me this pic... (No, I'm not dating him, but isn't he a cutie? :D)




Oh yeah, I love that messy, scraggly hair look, too ;) Meow.

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Get to Know... Quyen! :D

If you're reading this, you are hereby forced to post your own "Get to Know..." post on your own blog! :P I got this one from Jenn ;)

10 REALLY RANDOM THINGS ABOUT ME

1. I used to play Magic the Gathering, competitively
2. I've always wanted platinum blonde hair ;)
3. I used to be a professional tarot card reader
4. I never in my life thought I'd become a teacher, but I'm so glad I did :)
5. I'm incredibly self-conscious about my physical appearance
6. I've had musicial compositions premiered by symphony orchestra
7. I have at least 8 evening gowns that I've never worn in my life because I've never been anywhere fancy enough to wear them, but I still keep them in my closet, hoping that I will
8. I am unable to "sleep in" - I naturally wake up between 8 and 9 without an alarm clock :(
9. I once considered becoming a professional escort (thankfully, I decided on college, instead :P)
10. Even more than getting head, I love giving head ;)

9 WAYS TO WIN MY HEART

1. Tell me I'm beautiful
2. Always have a big surprise waiting for me... in your pants :P
3. Love to hug and hold me
4. Be a good kisser and love to kiss me
5. Have an incredible sense of humor and be silly, sarcastic, and witty at all the right times
6. Do something sweet and adorable in a lustful and passionate moment (like saying you just want to cuddle when I'm just about to go down on you :P)
7. Bring me my favorite flowers: Stargazer Lillies - they're only $5 a bouquet ;)
8. Cook me a homemade meal or work side by side with me in the kitchen
9. Be intelligent and able to stimulate not only my body but my mind as well

8 THINGS I CARRY/WEAR EVERYDAY

1. "Wet Your Whistle" chapstick from Bath & Body Works
2. "Emollience" moisturizer from SkinCeuticals
3. A thong ;)
4. Giorgio Armani glasses
5. My purse that looks like a doctor's bag
6. An "ouchless" elastic hair tie or hair clip
7. Packing tape
8. My credit card :P

7 THINGS THAT ANNOY ME

1. People who don't look you in the eye when they talk to you
2. Being scratched by my cat
3. Bad kissers! >:(
4. Bad drivers! >:(
5. Guys who are completely silent in bed (no moaning or dirty talk)
6. Waking up after a nap all sticky and sweaty :(
7. People who talk on their cell phones while they're on a date

6 PLACES I'VE VISITED

1. Florence, Italy
2. Vienna, Austria
3. Meiringen, Switzerland - I want to retire here someday! :D
4. London, England
5. Tijijuana, Mexico - bwahahahaha ;)
6. Vatican City (no, I'm not Catholic :P)

5 THINGS I WANT TO DO BEFORE I DIE

1. Learn to play 7-string bass viola da gamba well enough to play all of Marin Marais' Pieces de Viole
2. Publish a book of my writing, whether it be on pedagogy, a novel, or my poetry
3. Tour with a String Quartet
4. Get married and raise children
5. See more of the world

4 THINGS I'M AFRAID OF

1. Getting old
2. Ghosts and spirits
3. Scary movies and scary video games :P
4. Dying with regrets

3 THINGS I DO EVERYDAY

1. Play Utopia
2. Wash my face
3. Feed my cat

2 THINGS I'M TRYING NOT TO DO NOW

1. Compulsively lie all the time
2. Constantly eat unhealthy foods

1 PERSON I WANT TO SEE NOW

1. Chris :\

I'm Self-Conscious

Ever since Grace posted her "What Blogger Am I?" post, I've been self-conscious about posting anything else. I mean, I know it was a spoof of my writing style, but then I gotta think: How over the top IS my writing style? I keep reading it over and over again thinking, "Wow. People must think I'm ridiculous with my smileys and exclamation marks and rhetorical questions! hahahaha Not to mention the "sexy" pics I post and blatant sexuality that comes across in my writing :P Kudos to Grace for having the balls to go outside and go take "sexy" pics ;) Meow. Grace has got it going on! I think this calls for some rice on rice action, don't you think? :P

What Blogger Am I?

1. Was so uncreative that I resorted to using this format instead of "Erotica with Quyen Pt 2"
2. Went into work for only an hour
3. Laughed at the inside joke my coworker made when she said her "wrist hurt"
4. Told her that my wrist hurt, too
5. Laughed at the people who didn't know what we were laughing about because they didn't realize we were perverts
6. Watched my girlfriend burn our dinner
7. Listened to my friend's roomate have sex
8. Reenacted a silent film scene with the roomate's sex as my soundtrack
9. Stepped on my cat
10. Realized my days aren't as exciting as I thought they were

Fart Flavor of the Day: Macaroni and Cheese and Apricot

Shopping!

Today, I woke up and decided to make a short trip to the bank to deposit my check, and then to PetCo to use this coupon I had for a free bag of Eukanuba cat food. Well, I picked up the cat food and then saw a sale for the wet food. Then, I saw a sale on the cat litter. Then, fuck it; I picked up a fuzzy cat toy. You ever have those trips where you go in for one thing and you come out with like ten more things? And sometimes, you have those trips where you go in for one thing and leave with ten things, except the thing you came in for is not one of those ten things? That's the worst.

Anyway, I decided to stop at Marshall's too to see if they had a cute bathmat and toilet seat cover (I tried washing mine in a washing machine and they totally fell apart!) So, I didn't get the bathmat or the toilet seat cover :( But I did get a 440 thread count queen sheet set, a matching set of four pillowcases, a kitchen floor rug, and a space rug for the bedroom :P

I did notice one thing today, though. You know those packages of men's briefs and wife beaters that have the amazingly hot male models with toned bodies and no heads? You know, the ones where they have the sock stuffed down the front? :P I LOVE THOSE! I was sitting in Marshall's picking them up and looking at the pictures hahahaha If I had a b/f, I would make him buy them for himself and then steal the cardboard inserts and hide them under the matress :P That way, if I ever need eye candy, I don't have to go to Marshall's ;)

Erotica With Quyen

So, I was just cleaning up the last of the living room and I found this book that my friend from work lent me called Aqua Erotica. The reason why it's called Aqua Erotica is two-fold: 1) every story is somehow related to water and 2) the pages are waterproof. How fucking awesome is waterproof erotica? You can do all sorts of naughty things to it, then wipe it down and put it back on the coffee table! bwahahaha :P

Anyway, I was reading one of these stories about this woman who was forced to suck this guy's "fuck staff" ;) And then he started strangling her until she blacked out... Then she woke up and she realized that she came all over the bed... from being strangled! Okay... so here's the weird part. I totally got turned on! Is that wrong? I know all women have the rape fantasy to some degree, but this was like real rape. I couldn't believe she orgasmed from being strangled! It makes me wonder if I'd orgasm if I were strangled? Let's not find out... :P

Anyway, I have a serious manhandling fetish. I don't like being hit or beaten, but I like it when a guy picks me up and throws me on the bed and then has his way with me. What can I say? I like being submissive... and no, that has nothing to do with me being Asian :P I also like it when a guy is so horny that he whips it out and starts stroking for me, or when he tells me to get down on my knees and suck his cock. It's that kind of raw, selfish masculinity that really makes me go wild. ;)

Go, Quyen! Go!

So, I think this breakup thing works in stages (Quick! Someone write another book!) I've started to try to actively get out of the house more. Whether it's a date or a friend who wants to catch a late dinner, I'm there - even if I have to drive (and I hate driving). What I'm starting to realize is that Los Angeles really is a wonderful city. There's so much to do here. So many people to meet. So much great food to eat! :D hehehe

I never knew how much existed outside of my apartment or even just the city of Northridge! A couple nites ago, I went to Manhattan Beach for the first time in my life. I'm starting to realize that Denny's isn't the only place to eat late. All this time, I've just been so embittered that I had to come to Los Angeles for college. I hated the pollution and the traffic and the people. But now, I finally see what's out here, and I realize why so many people love LA so much. It's like I'm opening my eyes for the first time since I've moved here! :P

I can't believe I stayed cooped up in the "safety" of my apartment for such a long time. Even though I'm getting into trouble, I'm having fun. I'm enjoying getting to know new people and making new friends. I finally get that saying about working hard and playing hard. And God... it feels so good to play hard ;)

I just want to cuddle...

Okay. So, I realize now that I'm in that stage after the breakup where I'm craving human touch. I'm seriously about to rape my pillow. It's not that horny feeling that I usually get, either. It's this insatiable need to be held and comforted and feel like I'm being taken care of.

I rework the scenario in my head every nite before I fall asleep... I'm laying in bed in my cotton bra and thong. The sheets feel so soft and the night air has just enough cold in it to make it sting. That's when he presses his body against mine from behind... nestling his growing hardness between my ass cheeks. He pulls me close, wrapping his arm around my torso, right underneath my breasts. His other hand strokes my head, tracing my layered black hair cascading down my body. I press back into him, closing the gap so every inch of my skin is pressing against his. He starts to smell my hair, taking in my scent, which makes me go wild. I love it when a man is intoxicated by me.

He brushes my hair away, revealing my bare neck and starts kissing it. It's the kind of kiss that is gone before you realize it's there, the kind you can only return if you playfully flick your tongue back, hoping to catch his lips before they're gone. I moan, gently and affectionately, and his kisses turn into tender bites on my skin. I feel his hand run along the side of my body, encircling my breast, down my side, dipping at my waist, then up my hips, and down my thigh. I place my hand on his and guide it up then down and back again, letting him feel everything. He slips his fingers underneath the strap of my thong, and just when I think he's about to touch me, he playfully snaps my thong, leaving a teasing sensation on the inside of my hip.

I turn around, smiling a mischievious smile, like I already know what I'm going to do to get him back. But before I can enact my plan, he pulls me close, strokes my face and tells me I'm beautiful. I melt. I take his jaw in my palm and his ear in my fingertips and I press my lips against his; they are so soft. He kisses back, more eager and excited, then pulls me on top of his body. My palms are resting against his chest, half supporting me, half pushing him away. But my lips and tongue want nothing more than to taste all of him.

I start kissing his chest, running my fingernails down his ribs, tickling him. He pulls my arms down to the side and leans forward for a kiss. I force him back down, straddling him, and get him to free my wrists. My mouth goes straight for his nipples as I feel him arch his back a little. I love it, being in control of his body. It turns me on. I gently bite my way down his torso, which makes him convulse into tiny, miniscule orgasms, making my way down to his throbbing shaft. I wrap my lips around it, through his boxers, and watch him look at my audacity. Then, I nuzzle his balls with my nose, and mock-lick them through the fabric. And just when my fingers are rolling down his boxers, ready to reveal his fuck staff, he pulls me up, kisses me, and says, "I just want to cuddle..."

Finally! It's over! :D

So, for the past month, I've been stressing out about presenting my first student showcase recital. As many of you know, I teach viola, violin, cello, and piano at a private performing arts school. Because we are the premiere arts school in the area, there are certain aspects that put us a cut above the rest. One of those things is showcase recitals. We are required, by signed contract, to put together a showcase of our students and present them to the public. Since the quality of the recital is something that can affect your future pay scale (as well as be a vehicle for getting fired), it was extremely important for me to show the school my worth as both a teacher and performer. And as the "new kid on the block", I had to prove myself to the other faculty as well.

I've spent the last couple of months preparing my students for this recital. From picking out repertoire to teaching them recital etiquette to polishing their pieces and so on. It's important to have your students play well because they are representing you as a teacher as well as your effectiveness as a teacher. So, needless to say, I've been very stressed out.

Well, the recital was this past Saturday, and I have to admit it's all a blur to me now. I messed up on my intro speech, the kids forgot when to leave their seat to come perform next so I had to ask the manager to help me micro-manage them, and in my performance, there was a huge page-turning blunder... BUT it all went well and reasonably smoothly! I got complimented many times on my performance, as well as my students' performances. The dean of the school was very pleased at the professional quality that my recital had. She specifically noted how nice it was to sit there and just see students do everything like clockwork without prompting. So, I hope this reflects well on my record, and now, I'm sure I'm not going to get fired! ;)

Now to start thinking about my next recital in December! :P

P.S. After the recital, I enjoyed a wonderful sushi dinner and then got really, really buzzed. Talk about stress relief hehehe :P

My Dream Has Finally Come True!

Last nite, my Sifu (Chinese for "sensei") invited a bunch of my classmates and I over to his place to hang out and watch movies. Well, we were talking and I sorta snuck into the conversation that I still really wanted to learn Kung Fu fan. He said that I could start learning beginning this Sunday and he wondered why I didn't ask to learn sooner. I told him that when I first came to the school that he told me that he would tell me when I was ready to learn it, to which he replied, "You're ready now." I am so amazingly happy! :D He even gifted me with his own personal Kung Fu fighting fan! This is definitely a milestone in my life... the very thing I came to Kung Fu class to learn, I will finally be starting! :) I'm so grateful to my Sifu and his faith in me :)

UPDATE: I deleted the pic that was here originally because some of my friends called me and said to take it down and wondered how I could be so retarded to post such a bad pic of me. I didn't think it was such a bad pic, but I did only have 4 hours of sleep when I took that pic and I still hadn't showered yet from last nite's Kung Fu. Therefore, I took the picture away :P

This started out innocently. I promise.

So, after many requests of people wanting to see what my new haircut looked like, I decided to hook up my webcam and do a little picture taking. Well, originally, I wanted to show you my hair, and that was it. But then I wanted to include the new tops I got this weekend, too. So, it became this hair and fashion photo shoot thing.



This is the most amazing picture of my hair that I took. You can see the side sweeping bangs, the short layers on top, and all of that sexy volume ;)




A messy half up/half down is just one of the many looks I can achieve with this haircut. It's so versatile!

I was doing just fine taking PG-13 rated pics. But then, things turned terribly wrong because I got comfortable in front of the camera and well... let's just say that this post is dedicated to all the loyal guys who come by and visit my blog ;)




This is where it all started. The side view.




Wanna bite my lip for me? ;)




Meow. Just meow.




Okay, this picture has absolutely nothing to do with my hair... but have you noticed that my shirt is assymetrical? :P

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Weekends Should be Luxurious and Long

I just got back from my Memorial Day weekend ;) I got done with work on Saturday and left for San Diego and got back into town this morning, just in time for work later this afternoon. I bet you all are hating me right now :P I ended up doing a lot... Let's make a list! :D

- I got a trendy new haircut. I cut side sweeping bangs and short layers around my crown while leaving the length intact. Now my hair doesn't get in the way when I'm making out with someone! ;)

- I got some cute new clothes. I made a deal with my sister (she's a fashion guru) to be my personal shopper and I'd pay her for it. Well, she went out to the Memorial Day sales and tore it up! She got me 3 tops and a pair of black pants for only $25! And they are all labels! I know. I'm a brand whore. :P

- I went to a drive-thru sushi place. Yes, you heard me. It's a place where you can pick up sushi at a drive-thru window. My whole family is amazed that I haven't died yet, considering I ordered rainbow rolls from there two days in a row. The best part is that they give all sorts of free crap with your order, like edamame, shrimp chips, and various cut fruits. It's like ordering a Japanese value meal! ;)

- I had "sex with the ex". Four times. I slept over at his place on Saturday nite and then again last nite. I'm so freaking bad at getting over boys. I'm so sure this is not healthy for either of us. Then again, it was really good sex. It's kind of like seeing that country fried steak with mashed potatoes and country gravy on the menu and thinking, "Oh, I shouldn't. It's so unhealthy. Then again... Mmmmmmmmm." Yeah, it's kind of like that.